Dsub is waaay too big for what I needed. I could drop down to a VGA-15 but then again not in the wire gauges I would want this thing in.
I have hope I'll find someone, there's got to be a company, you know like those guys that do radios... etc
The parrot bluetooth I got, used a very similar header, with custom colors and tags on the wires.. just need to know who made that! haha
Added a switch, +50cents, but worth just opening the box, and switching CANH and CANL than maybe getting screwed putting the wires wrong on the other end.